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Navigating Through Life With Your Preteen Son
It was bound to happen and you aren’t surprised. Your baby boy is growing up and has now found himself in that fuzzy area of life where he is no longer a child, not quite a teen and still far from a man. His body is changing almost daily. And as a parent, you can get confused and sometimes frustrated with his moods and behavior. Take heart. While it may be challenging, this is an exciting time in the life of your son.
Entering fifth and sixth grade means that your son will be given more freedoms. Things like paper routes and school duties become a part of their daily routine and he might also be asked to do more difficult physical tasks as he gains strength. It’s normal for boys at this age to try and revert back to the past, to the days before they had so many responsibilities.
That’s an understandable reaction in this time of rapid change and you can help him through it with encouragement. Explain how proud you are of him and boost his confidence with positive words to help him deal with those feelings.
Preteen boys are prone to getting caught up in the world of gaming. The flashy and exciting games that are marketed to 10 year old kids can be hard to resist. Your son might want to spend enormous amounts of time at his gaming system or computer workstation desk. Screen time can become more than a hobby and limits may have to be set for their own good.
Your son may also be growing almost over night. His clothes will quickly become too small and he could be discovering a new sense of fashion. Look at buying clothes in sets – one to fit now and a similar style in a larger size to fit soon after. Some adjustable items can be purchased in men’s sizes. Winter coats, gloves and socks might work. Men’s watches are perfect and will help give him a handle on his responsibilities.
As he grows your son may find his coordination has a few issues. If he enjoys a certain sport, encourage him to keep at it and his muscles will adapt. If he is nervous to try new things or not comfortable with this new strength, suggest other physical activities that will be beneficial to him. Things like swimming, weight lifting and cycling can all be done together and without pressure. You can get involved as well by buying mountain bike or exercise equipment as a family.
Make sure your son knows that you are on his side through this awkward time. Be encouraging, positive and understanding. Taking time to be with him and communicating your love will give him a firm foundation.
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